Our latest offerings and recent event history

 DATE: June 28th – 30th
LOCATION: OUR Ecovillage, Shawnigan Lake, BC

PRAISE offers a space for people who tend the deepest levels of human experience to bask in gratitudes and celebration. We spend so much time plumbing the depths, it is time to be in good company, and soar together to heights of joy and praise.
We gather to be nourished and cleansed, to celebrate and give thanks. To feast and sing. We gather to share stories and dreams, skills and artistry.
We gather to forge the relational bonds that can buoy us as we navigate the deeper currents of cultural change.
We gather to praise the Harvest, to praise the Holy Mother Waters. To be nourished and cleansed, to feast and give thanks.

We gather to develop our “praise muscle” so we can renew ourselves and prepare for the deeper Work that lies ahead.

KINDLING WISDOM: Lighting the path to a resilient future

I am thrilled to be sharing this unique space for healing social, cultural and soil landscapes, with AN AMAZING LINE-UP of presenters, at the gorgeous OUR Ecovillage on Vancouver Island, BC.

HIINACIT (Petrina DeZall)


We will gather at the stunning OUR Ecovillage in Shawnigan Lake, BC.

Tickets include 3 fresh cooked meals per day + a campsite.

Meals include veggies, herbs, and fruits grown from our 10 acres of farmland and eggs from our chickens. We usually offer vegan, vegetarian, and gluten free options. When you register, you will be sent a survey to share your dietary needs with the kitchen.

This program is offered in the spirit of a Gratitude Culture

Many people have generously shared their time and energy in reciprocity and abundance to bring this beautiful gathering to life. Please contribute as much as you can financially and bring your gifts, skills, and resources to share with the community.

We intend to be as accessible as possible – if money is a barrier to your participation and you feel a strong call to be here, please fill out this form to request a payment plan or a skill-trade (we want to value you!).



Join us for a community weekend of rekindling embodied, nature-based, relational wisdom.

In the face of the many ongoing tragedies caused by the unraveling of our political and economic systems, we must still hold the torch for a resilient future. We believe that cultural revival, deep solidarity, and embodied wisdom are essential foundations for our path forward.

Kindling Wisdom is a spark for re-culturing our relationships with ourselves, each other, and the land. Gather with us to re-connect what has been disconnected, to mend what has been torn, and to mourn what has been lost. Together we will weave a rich tapestry of song, story, solidarity, somatic awareness, historical reflection, and earth-based wisdom, as we co-create a future that is resilient, regenerative, and rooted in collective remembrance.


If you can register at a higher tier, you support others who cannot financially contribute to participate. Please choose your contribution from the Gratitude Culture Scale listed below:

1) Supported Contribution – $180 USD

For those needing financial support to attend.

2) Reciprocal Contribution – $220 USD

For those with sufficient financial resources who can pay at cost per person for the Gathering.

3) Rebalancing Contribution  – $290 USD





PRAISE: Gratitude Gathering for Tending the Tenders

DATE: November 22-26th, 2023, Wednesday through Sunday
LOCATION: Lake Crescent, WA, Camp David Jr. 

PRAISE offers a space for people who tend the deepest levels of human experience to bask in gratitudes and celebration. We spend so much time plumbing the depths, it is time to be in good company, and soar together to heights of joy and praise.
We gather to be nourished and cleansed, to celebrate and give thanks. To feast and sing. We gather to share stories and dreams, skills and artistry.

We gather to forge the relational bonds that can buoy us as we navigate the deeper currents of cultural change.
We gather to praise the Harvest, to praise the Holy Mother Waters. To be nourished and cleansed, to feast and give thanks.
We gather to develop our “praise muscle” so we can renew ourselves and prepare for the deeper Work that lies ahead.


PRAISE will be designed for spaciousness, to encourage intimate connections — walking, cold plunging, and sitting fireside with one another. Ample time for sharing dreams, sharing tools, sharing triumphs and travails. There will be no pre-set “programming” or “workshops.” Only emergent, open time and open space.
Time to just BE together.
Time to get to know one another, as our cultural and ritual movements gain traction and velocity.


Praise will take place during the season of “Thanksgiving,” offer us the opportunity so many are seeking to repattern how we offer gratitudes during this time of the year.


Praise will gather on the shores of the sparkling, crystalline Lake Crescent in the traditional lands of the S’Klallam and Makah, aka Washington’s Olympic Peninsula.


Camp David Jr. is a rustic retreat which was originally built as a health spa in the early 1900s.


It features the Qui Sana Lodge, a large timber frame gathering space with stone fireplace, commercial kitchen and stunning lake views. Multiple cabins with bunkbeds are dotted throughout, BYO bedroll.

BRING YOUR FAMILY for hiking, biking, and good old fashioned feast and storytime with our favorite singers and crooners!

PRAISE will welcome folks to bring their partners and children, in honor of this traditional time of family gathering. In addition to the main timber frame Lodge, there is another space which will house youth and family activities.

YOUTH: Our youth primitive skills program ALONE is worth the trip, with live storytelling by Harvest Moon, weaving and firemaking with stone age luminaries, Meg Evans and Lucas Schuster.

FOOD: The way it works is basically a giant potluck. Each adult will bring one dish that feeds 8-12 people. Add that to some staple foods that PRAISE provides, and we will all be fed.

COMMUNITY SERVICE: This is a people-powered gathering. Each adult will pitch in by signing up for service shifts. You will receive a Service Sheet Form with registration. Many hands make light work!

PROCEEDS: 10% of our net proceeds from this gathering are going directly to Local Native Tribal Folks. Your tickets and donations make this possible.
QUESTIONS? WANT A WORKTRADE POSITION ? Send us an EMAIL describing your situation: PraiseGatheringNW@gmail.com


Women’s Grief & Gratitude Lodge

“Take note, and summon the wailing women; send for the most skillful among them. Let them come quickly and take up a lament over us, that our eyes may overflow with tears, and our eyelids may gush with water.…”

Friday, Feb 10th, 2023, 5pm-7:30pm,
(doors at 4pm)
Saturday, Feb 11th, 10am-5pm
Sunday, Feb 12, 10am-3pm

NOTE: No drop-ins please. All participants must be present for the duration of the weekend. Thanks for helping us create a solid container


Earlybird General Admission
(limited spots available)
Earlybird Locals** Admission
(limited spots available)
General Admission:
Locals Admission:

**Are you LOCAL?: You are considered “local” if you will be sleeping in your own bed for duration of this event.

General admission to this event is priced to make it accessible and affordable, please pay at the highest level that you can afford to do your part in making this event accessible to low-income and marginalized people. Sharing resources more equitably is a critical skill if we are dedicated to healing and justice. PLEASE CLICK THIS LINK TO THE GREEN BOTTLE, to determine what rate you should contribute.

If the above admission rates are beyond your reach, please get in touch to apply for a reduced rate spot: griefandgratitude@gmail.com


WHEN:  February 10th – 12th, Friday – Sunday
FACILITATORS:  Grief Doula Nala Walla, Storyteller Harvest Moon, Song Leader Ahlay Blakely.
LOCATION:  Fred Lewis Cabin, in Port Townsend, WA
REGISTRATION: Email us to get on the waitlist for this event.  griefandgratitude@gmail.com


In days of old (but not so long ago), women have traditionally come together to weep and wail for this world. Our tears are holy food for spirit, and our sacred snot is a potent lubricant for change.

We are overdue for some juicy women’s wailing, during these times of deep crisis and confusion. Creating space to honor our grief in community is a critically important form of cultural activism. And since grief and gratitude go hand in hand, our full-hearted grieving paradoxically restores our access to joy.

For this special Weekend Lodge, we will welcome the women of our community into ritual space together in the ways that women have always done–by weaving stories with our hands, our voices, and our bodies.. Quinalt Elder Harvest Moon, will combine her skills as master basket-maker and storyteller to help us braid together deepest grief with deepest gratitude. And grief songstress Ahlay Blakely will weave us in song throughout the Lodge. Grief Doula Nala Walla will offer somatic practices to connect us with the ancestral wisdom in our lineages.

Our ritual will involve the simple technologies of drum, song, deep listening in small groups, and space for movement and expression, which includes good old-fashioned drumming, wailing and heartful dancing! Let us gather now to cry out together for healing, for justice, and peace to return to our world.

Family Stories & Legends of the Pacific Northwest

Harvest Moon is a renowned Quinault weaver, storyteller and honored cultural Historian. All her tales portray vivid images of spirituality, morality, and rich, rich culture. This evening will celebrate the idea that nothing is more powerful than water, and the words of women. Harvest will bring listeners on a journey to hear how women of the past influence our paths through the collective unconscious, and will include her personal life-changing experiences with grief ceremony.

HYEE! as ancutti tillicum! *translation* “Long ago friends” Harvest sold her weavings on the sidewalks of Port Townsend during the wooden boat festival. Now Harvest is gracing our shores again, this time as a revered elder of the Women’s Grief and Gratitude Lodge. While she is here, she is excited to offer a public premier her new telling of family legends and stories of the Olympics.

For all ages, By Donation
$10 – $35 suggested, NOTA
All proceeds go directly to Elder Harvest Moon

Thursday, February 9th, 2023
6-8 pm, Unity Church
3918 San Juan Ave • Port Townsend • WA

Beware: you will experience a gifted storyteller, inheriting her trade from a long line of tellers.

SPONSORED BY: The Well – Cultivating the Wisdom of Grief
Patreon.com/WellWisdom | BWellNow.org | Port Townsend, WA


Grief & Gratitude Orcas Island – July 23/24, 2022

The Grief and Gratitude Lodge is place to cultivate a deepening of our capacity to grieve, and thus, to live more fully and gratefully. Our larger cultural climate of mandatory cheerfulness and open contempt for expressions of powerful emotions such as sorrow, despair, and rage ultimately deadens our ability to feel, and erodes our connections with community. Practicing the skill of grieving in the presence of our neighbors, friends and allies allows us to rekindle relationship with our own bodies, our fellow humans, our ancestors, and with the greater Earthly body. 

A heart-centered weekend includes drumming, movement, singing/chanting and of course – grieving. You’re invited to stay for a potluck, fireside song circle and camping if you desire. Sunday is an opportunity to integrate and nourish ourselves with gratitude and community connection

WHEN: July 23 & 24th, 2022:  Saturday 10-6pm + optional potluck and fireside song circle Sunday 10-1pm
LOCATION: Ravensong: 961 Pinneo Rd, Eastsound, WA 98245. Camping available.
FACILITATOR: Nala Walla, grief doula, culture-builder, and tender of the old medicine ways. Learn more about Nala here: https://bwellnow.org/about/
SUGGESTED CONTRIBUTION: $150-350 sliding scale (work-trade available upon request)
EMAIL TO REGISTER: hayley@hayleyshannon.com

Day-long Grief Tending – Bainbridge – Sat 16 July 2022

Since 2002, Sacred Groves has offered the opportunity to gather and support each other in community to release grief, feel support and connection, heal our tender hearts. This is a place where your tears and heart-ache will be held in a sacred container with support and witnessing. The retreat includes talking circles, singing, ceremony, sharing food and quiet time in the woods. The heart of the retreat is an evening ceremony inspired by Sobonfu Some.

The spiritual framework for this ritual includes time-honored and earth based modalities, utilizing the power of drumming and chanting, and the belief that the natural world is a rich place of inter-connection with the unseen realms, including our ancestors.

WHEN: July 16th,  2022:  10am-10pm
LOCATION: Sacred Groves Meadow
FACILITATOR: Therese and Tere of Sacred Groves, Laurence Cole & Nala Walla


Ancestral Lineage Healing Series

WHEN:  Six Wednesdays
May 11th – June 15th, 2022

9 – 10:30am Pacific (PDT)
limit 12 participants
$240 for series
WHERE: Zoom 

Developing relationships with our ancestors, and helping to heal the intergenerational wounds of our lineages is a rich and rewarding journey, a journey to which many of us feel called, especially during these chaotic and uncertain times.  This series offers a group format to share our questions, yearnings, and experiences, with skilled guidance from experienced Lineage Healing practitioner, Nala Walla.

This series is for folks who already have experience with Ancestral Lineage Healing, and who are looking for ongoing witnessing and accompaniment available in a group.  Number of participants will be kept intentionally small to create a space for individualized attention and deepening of group intimacy.

Griefwalker:  Roundtable Discussion Group

BWELL INTEGRATIVE WELLNESS has teamed up with the Unity Fellowship of Port Townsend to present a unique discussion group, focusing on the works of Stephen Jenkinson, Martin Prechtel, Francis Weller and other notables in the field of Grief, Death and Dying.

We will use the Griefwalker documentary, along with writings in the field of Grief, Death, and Dying as a springboard for discussions about things we rarely have the opportunity to speak upon in public setting. How does our culture view death? How do we consider grief? This discussion is intended to let some fresh air into topics that have been stifled by mandatory cheerfulness, and cultural contempt for vulnerability.

Each week, we will take home selected readings, and return to discuss them in an open and respectful space, facilitated by Nala Walla of BWell Integrative Wellness.

We ask that people committ to all 8 sessions, and pay in advance. Weekly payments can be arranged where necessary. Thanks for your interest!